I once saw this elder cornered his wife against a wall and pointed his finger in her face. He seemed very angry with her, not sure what she did or said, but she definitely didn't deserve to be treated like that. This elder was known throughout for his arrogance.
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Why do you support having sex out of marriage?
by free2beme ini work with a lot of people who are very sexually active.
which should mean they are real happy, right?
after all, isn't sex the best feeling in the world and that is why we have such a strong internal sex drive.
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I'm still a virgin at 34 and cannot for the life of me bring myself to have sex. Been a JW since I was 15, got DF for immorality a couple weeks ago, didn't have intercourse but did enough to warrant being DF. I'm still not sure it's what I want though, I mean I always wanted to wait til marriage as I think it makes it more special. I also want to make sure the person absolutely loves me before giving myself to him. So unless he proposes to me, no sex
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District Conventions
by EAGLES ini hadnt been to a d.c. in about 10 years is it really true that congragations have to sit together now????
whats up with that is it so that the elders can see who's there and who isnt.
that would blow my scam from way back when i would maybe make one half of one day and tell people i made all 4 days.
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this would be my first year not attending the DC and I couldn't be happier. Is it me or does anyone else fine them EXTREMELY boring?
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So they disfellowshipped me
by Thinking of Leaving inlast wednesday night.
get this though, a df "brother" called the house today looking for me, he told my mom that he wanted to talk to me about something he heard last week, she told him i'm at work today and he wanted my work number which my mother refused to give to him.
i wonder what the heck he wants.
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Yeah I found that strange too, I think he's very nosy and just wants to find out why, imagine he hardly goes to meetings and wants to encourage ME ahhahaha, sounds like he needs more encouragement than I do. He better not call me again.
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So they disfellowshipped me
by Thinking of Leaving inlast wednesday night.
get this though, a df "brother" called the house today looking for me, he told my mom that he wanted to talk to me about something he heard last week, she told him i'm at work today and he wanted my work number which my mother refused to give to him.
i wonder what the heck he wants.
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for those of you who don't know I was DF for immorality, I didn't have intercourse but commited other "immoral" acts...I never went into details with the elders as to what I did and didn't do, I just told them I committed fornication (never told them I didn't have intercourse), anyhow I never met with their JC and never got into details about my personal life. It was never any of their business anyhow and I wanted them to DF me, I wanted to be free to live my life the way I choose, without feeling any guilt.
So I spoke with that DF "brother" this morning, it was so important that he called yesterday three times and when I didn't return his calls, he called this morning, very early, to make sure he got meapparently he heard from his sister (a self righteous Pioneer "sister" who is VERY gossipy that I am DF and he wanted to take the opportunity to encourage me, he said he wanted to tell me not to wait too long before coming backI told him straight out that I don't need encouragement and I won't be coming back anytime soon, so not to bother calling me, he said oh well you have my number if you change your mind, yeah whatever!!!
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So they disfellowshipped me
by Thinking of Leaving inlast wednesday night.
get this though, a df "brother" called the house today looking for me, he told my mom that he wanted to talk to me about something he heard last week, she told him i'm at work today and he wanted my work number which my mother refused to give to him.
i wonder what the heck he wants.
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last Wednesday nightthey announced it
get this though, a DF "brother" called the house today looking for me, he told my mom that he wanted to talk to me about something he heard last week, she told him I'm at work today and he wanted my work number which my mother refused to give to him. I wonder what the heck he wants. Maybe he's looking for company/friends as he's DF himself or maybe he's looking for a girlfriendlol, I know he's still married to a JW and has two kids, but not sure why he was ever DF. I'm so curious as to what he wants. Interestingly, I always felt as if he had a liking for me even while married
well the good news is that now I know for certainty they announced it and I'm COMPLETELY free
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First Date Etiquette
by Crumpet inso i am going on a blind first date this weekend?
i havent done any dating really - well ever.
i just end up with people for years and years by accidents of fate i guess.. what should i and shouldnt i do on a first date?
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ummmmm crumpet are you a bi-sexual? didn't you just say you broke up with a guy?
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I'm going to be disfellowshipped on Wednesday
by Thinking of Leaving inthe elders cames to my home on saturday and i didn't answer the door, so they told my sister to relay the message.
the message was "you know what it's about, we're going to make the announcement next meeting".
i knew it was coming...but it feels so weird.
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HI everyone, my night wasn't as bad as I thought. I had a relaxing evening at the park, watched the ducks swim around in the pond and really enjoyed the outdoors. It was a beautiful sunny day here. When the elders came on Saturday they said that they will make the announcement next week, I'm only GUESSING, this meant last night. I called my JW friend and she didn't attend the meeting, she was ill (yeah right)lol. So right now I"m not ABSOLUTELY sure they announced my DF, but I felt in my heart last night that they did. How do I feel? I don't think the reality has hit me yet, it won't until I see JW's completely ignorning me when I walk down the street. My new freedom is hard for me to accept, for now I'm not sure what to do with it. Did you all know that I don't have any non JW friends? The only friend I have right now is my boyfriend. I miss the companionship of my female friends. I know I will make more but it's going to take a while. I don't trust people very easily and I feel sometimes like I don't fit in with the world. Thanks to all of you for your support, I really wish I could of met with some of you, to share these feelings we all have in common.
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I'm going to be disfellowshipped on Wednesday
by Thinking of Leaving inthe elders cames to my home on saturday and i didn't answer the door, so they told my sister to relay the message.
the message was "you know what it's about, we're going to make the announcement next meeting".
i knew it was coming...but it feels so weird.
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Today is Wednesday and I have a huge knot in my stomach. People will be talking tonight, about me i.e., after the meeting. There is a one day assembly this weekend and people who knew me will get to find out. You all know how word spreadsI'm so scared today, it's not funny.
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I'm going to be disfellowshipped on Wednesday
by Thinking of Leaving inthe elders cames to my home on saturday and i didn't answer the door, so they told my sister to relay the message.
the message was "you know what it's about, we're going to make the announcement next meeting".
i knew it was coming...but it feels so weird.
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oh dear
tomorrow is the big day but I won't be there to hear it, I'm hoping my one JW friend who intends to continue talking and hanging out with me can give me the details. Right now it's quite surreal what's happening to me. The good side, now I have so much time on my hands, I don't know what to do with it. Actually I'm quite busy